Thursday, March 14, 2013

Interesting Conversations with Women - How to Quickly Create Sexual Tension


 

Talking to women is one of the hardest things that a man will ever do. It’s easy to start a conversation. Anyone can just walk up to a woman and say hello. 

The trick is to get past that initial hello and continue the conversation until it bears fruit. That fruit that you are seeking is sexual tension. 

Most men start off fine, but like a slow race horse, they fade coming down the stretch. We all have been there. But now it’s time to stop fading at the most important time of the race. 

Maintaining a conversation with a beautiful woman is not a chore. It is something that can be very beneficial.

But how do you do that?

The secret is so simple that you won’t believe it. The secret to keeping her interested in what you are saying is to simply LISTEN. That’s right; all you have to do is listen. If you just respond to what she is saying, you will have her attention forever.   

Let me give you an example.

Everyone likes to be entertained and women especially love it. All women love a man with a sense of humor and one you have her laughing, most of your work is done. That is why you should have a few funny stories to tell. If possible, they should involve you. Who hasn’t been in a funny situation at some point in their life? Women love a man that can laugh at himself as well as others. It shows that you are not stuck up on yourself.  

Knowing how to tell the story is as important as the story itself. Great stories are like great jokes. If they are told the right way, they are memorable. So make sure that your story has the following elements:

1.   You are the star of your story

2.   Portray yourself as appealing as possible. Make it seem like you are a great person.

3.   Keep the story funny and light.

4.   Nail the “punch line.” The best stories and jokes have a “punch line” that is never forgotten. 

Like anything else, the more that you do it, the better you will become. Try a few stories on your friend or family before you try them out on a female. If you get good reactions, your stories will be perfect for the dating scene.

Now that you have something to start with, remember that you have to listen too. The things that she says can be fodder for additional conversation. If you need to, ask her some questions.  Her answers can help you point the conversation in the right way. If you ask questions based on what she is saying, she will see that you are really listening to her instead of just pretending to. You can also use what she is saying to tie into a story that you might have. It’s all about building a connection.

Before you know it, you will be talking to women like an old pro. Those simple conversations won’t seem intimidating anymore and you will be able to entertain any woman that you want.
 
 

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